tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post3366413534016007211..comments2023-11-05T03:59:59.761-08:00Comments on Life Upside Right: The turning of a pageKittyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12307287525232934683noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-69259595064609399892010-12-20T13:05:05.041-08:002010-12-20T13:05:05.041-08:00Yes the realization is hard, the grieving is harde...Yes the realization is hard, the grieving is harder. It was so hard for me that I ate uncontrollably and gained a massive amount of weight and everything made me cry. Thank god for Lexapro! If only DH was open to the idea of adoption, it wouldn't make the biological child grieving as hard, but for me its the end. I hope you are able to persue your adoption dreams. I'm here and understand everything you are going through.Misty Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10082337877075044503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-23246969057822549762010-12-20T12:14:15.877-08:002010-12-20T12:14:15.877-08:00I will always wish the best for you, and be here t...I will always wish the best for you, and be here to support you, no matter what path you chose to follow. And I know you will be a wonderful mom, whether biologically, through adoption, through Atticus, all of those, none or some.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09894807507808139897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-77090197744799553132010-12-20T11:31:53.614-08:002010-12-20T11:31:53.614-08:00You don't know me, but I can relate to you and...You don't know me, but I can relate to you and the miserable emotions of infertility. My bout ended with a hysterectomy, and suprisingly, once I faced the facts, the agonizing hope of get pregnant seemed to disappear. I don't mean to make light of this, as that was a pretty drastic change, but it is true that once you don't press the issue, the moods and depression will subside.<br />Hang in there!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10093396593935605837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-17249432454307871552010-12-19T22:55:30.544-08:002010-12-19T22:55:30.544-08:00I've been thinking about this two. I've ha...I've been thinking about this two. I've had 2 back-to-back miscarriages and though things still look hopeful for me on the bio-child front, I'm trying to mentally adjust to the now real possibility that my children might not be genetically mine.<br /><br />Its NOT an easy concept to adjust to, and unfortunately the journey to acceptance and peace is a very solitary one- I wish you the best of luck with this, as well as the painful process of TTC.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15553205805046479504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-18226242562987423242010-12-19T17:55:01.813-08:002010-12-19T17:55:01.813-08:00Been there before. Heck, I think I'm still the...Been there before. Heck, I think I'm still there most days. I guess that's why my blog has taken a back seat lately. Don't really know what to talk about anymore. :{ But don't you worry, I'll be sticking around no matter where the road takes us!^J^https://www.blogger.com/profile/05567619492960871695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-12325621138636191252010-12-19T15:52:45.970-08:002010-12-19T15:52:45.970-08:00Will be here, no matter what you decide!Will be here, no matter what you decide!Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524692943966582775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-55522855480750651372010-12-18T16:27:03.464-08:002010-12-18T16:27:03.464-08:00I'm here for the long haul...best wishes for p...I'm here for the long haul...best wishes for peace and comfort, dear friend. ((Hugs))Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13326022901875387072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-80990814090602084632010-12-18T10:56:36.959-08:002010-12-18T10:56:36.959-08:00(((((Hugs)))))) You are a special lady. I feel y...(((((Hugs)))))) You are a special lady. I feel ya, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02571149055152186880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-15603341979021904352010-12-18T10:18:41.044-08:002010-12-18T10:18:41.044-08:00A huge decision, but sounds like a necessary one. ...A huge decision, but sounds like a necessary one. I'll be here... for whatever!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13876304376958575270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-46375418119154244512010-12-17T23:33:15.626-08:002010-12-17T23:33:15.626-08:00I am here too...It is one of the hardest transitio...I am here too...It is one of the hardest transitions and one I too struggle with monthly.<br />(hugs)The Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04715079283293653428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-59368417783367776342010-12-17T21:06:57.014-08:002010-12-17T21:06:57.014-08:00TTC/IF is one of the hardest things I have ever ha...TTC/IF is one of the hardest things I have ever had to deal with. It's taxing on so many levels. There's so much grief to deal with. However you decide to build your family, you will make a wonderful mother to some little person!!! I have faith that you and Hubs will make the right decision for you. <br /><br /><br />(((HUGS))))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-86173241725299246602010-12-17T19:08:41.646-08:002010-12-17T19:08:41.646-08:00I'm here thick and thin.... (((HUGS)))I'm here thick and thin.... (((HUGS)))Tanyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01216093120217262879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-62746406615986090002010-12-17T17:43:54.225-08:002010-12-17T17:43:54.225-08:00I am sorry it has come to this but you know in you...I am sorry it has come to this but you know in your heart what you need. I will be here for you anytime.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17193871208271881735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-58136037861384499362010-12-17T17:17:04.217-08:002010-12-17T17:17:04.217-08:00For whatever it's worth, I love your blog and ...For whatever it's worth, I love your blog and will continue to read it as long as you write it. <br /><br />You are in my thoughts! (((hugs)))My Vegashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02232402432779260397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-74946746527948801902010-12-17T17:13:55.863-08:002010-12-17T17:13:55.863-08:00I know exactly what you mean. It's a pretty sh...I know exactly what you mean. It's a pretty shitty realization to arrive at, but in a lot of ways, giving in to that 'sweet relief' is so much better than the endless months of failure. <br /><br />I'm glad you're leaving your options open right now. The struggles of TTC limit us so much, no sense further limiting ourselves.Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01353586913189430418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-85920347983347743752010-12-17T16:44:25.163-08:002010-12-17T16:44:25.163-08:00The break we took after my failed IVF was SO refre...The break we took after my failed IVF was SO refreshing. Sometimes we just need time where we aren't putting any pressure on ourselves. (((hugs)))Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00380678679042604862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-91045063027808166432010-12-17T16:42:22.744-08:002010-12-17T16:42:22.744-08:00I'm here for you, Kitty. You and your DH are i...I'm here for you, Kitty. You and your DH are in my prayers.Alexishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10526997768171577201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-42196372965493963922010-12-17T16:38:34.539-08:002010-12-17T16:38:34.539-08:00(hugs) I have been where you are and while it is s...(hugs) I have been where you are and while it is scary, it is freeing.elephantscanrememberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07486414028515515343noreply@blogger.com