tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post5537221745612856907..comments2023-11-05T03:59:59.761-08:00Comments on Life Upside Right: Considering throwing in the towelKittyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12307287525232934683noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-48292086483733096132010-12-01T10:02:58.829-08:002010-12-01T10:02:58.829-08:00I have followed your posts for awhile now, since b...I have followed your posts for awhile now, since before the event. <br /><br />If you need a break- TAKE THE BREAK. Its ok to mourn the loss. Its not just the loss of a baby. Its so much more than that. You have tried so hard and then to have it taken from you, its HARD to say the least. <br /><br />I understand the loss and all that comes with it, but never give up hope. You WILL be a mother. It will be hard, it will NOT be on your time line, but rather on one from a higher level, BUT IT WILL HAPPEN. <br /><br />I don't mean to sound harsh and please don't take it that way. Its just hard for me to see people loose faith or hope. With all the struggles and hardships that we have i know that deep in my heart there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I'm not sure when i will get to the end, but I KNOW that i will get there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-26920683534390288222010-11-29T11:41:51.217-08:002010-11-29T11:41:51.217-08:00I think you and the hubs are right where you need ...I think you and the hubs are right where you need to be--talking about your feelings, setting limits that you are both comfortable with and not making any big decisions until you are ready to talk them through. Take all the time you need to mourn and talk through your feelings. Hugs to you.jill's infertility documenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08289851786334836156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-90048142901333406102010-11-29T07:20:52.118-08:002010-11-29T07:20:52.118-08:00You've got to do what's best for you - no ...You've got to do what's best for you - no matter how hard it is. Just know that we're here no matter what!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13876304376958575270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-56915018637132843822010-11-27T20:40:53.570-08:002010-11-27T20:40:53.570-08:00These are tough questions to discuss. Take all th...These are tough questions to discuss. Take all the time you need in this process, and keep talking to the husband. You will figure out where you need to go... Hugs!Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524692943966582775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-20405759273598352632010-11-27T17:35:10.099-08:002010-11-27T17:35:10.099-08:00Hugs Kitty. I'm really sorry that you are eve...Hugs Kitty. I'm really sorry that you are even in this position to consider throwing in the towel of TTC. You should be done with this part and holding your baby in your arms. Are you still considering doing reproductive treatments anytime soon? I know at one time you were going to talk to your family about it. I wish it would just happen for you and you didn't have to think about it anymore.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17193871208271881735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-8491254771371671152010-11-27T16:42:17.117-08:002010-11-27T16:42:17.117-08:00(hugs) I know those feelings well. I admire your s...(hugs) I know those feelings well. I admire your strength. Take all the time you need.elephantscanrememberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07486414028515515343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-48662435167384617702010-11-27T16:11:04.818-08:002010-11-27T16:11:04.818-08:00This is such a difficult spot to be in and those c...This is such a difficult spot to be in and those conversations are similar to the ones that DH and I had, too. After my most recent m/c in the spring, I just couldn't get back in the TTC mindset.<br /><br />If you already decided on things in the past (age, moving towards adoption, etc) then maybe give yourself some time to see if that's where you're most comfortable heading. The great thing about your post though is that you're saying that you will be a mom someday, you just don't know how. I'm so proud of you for not giving up on that.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08507118457609696378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-15895559752557096902010-11-27T16:08:37.624-08:002010-11-27T16:08:37.624-08:00I know well the feelings you are dealing with. I s...I know well the feelings you are dealing with. I still grieve sometimes. Most days are better now, but there are still those days when I feel sad. Usually when a friend has a baby or at a baby shower or something like that. But it does get better. I promise. I know it's such a tough time. I'm praying for you, Kitty. ((HUGS))Alexishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10526997768171577201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-53494801620816748292010-11-27T14:59:45.345-08:002010-11-27T14:59:45.345-08:00It is a long road that has many twists in it. I th...It is a long road that has many twists in it. I think that you are doing a great thing; taking time and going with what feels right.<br />((hugs))The Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04715079283293653428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-82772707363350912542010-11-27T14:09:22.910-08:002010-11-27T14:09:22.910-08:00I know this is not what you want to hear, but I re...I know this is not what you want to hear, but I really believe that you will get pregnant. Why do I think that? I don't know. I remember when you announced your BFP months ago...I was so thrilled for you that I actually cried! I still believe it will happen again. Just know that I'm here, thousands of miles away, sending you this energy, OK?<br /><br />(((HUGS)))My Vegashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02232402432779260397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5051943214739916555.post-70958448529729362852010-11-27T13:56:50.942-08:002010-11-27T13:56:50.942-08:00I can't imagine what your going through. I th...I can't imagine what your going through. I think you should take all the time you need.<br />I recently went through a bit of a mourning process. It was so hard to imagine me never being pregnant, it hurt a lot. It still does. I was even harder to throw in the towel. We have found a little bit of peace with the road Terry and I chose.<br />You should take all the time you need. I'll be thinking of you...Niibiishenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07703128540315405889noreply@blogger.com