3.10.2011

What might have been

I've been dreading today for months, and now that it's here I'm... actually okay.  I called in sick and although Hubs couldn't do the same we had a few lovely hours together before he left for work.  There have been some tears and I expect there will be more.  I'm just going to allow myself to feel what I feel, and not force myself to feel one way or another.

To my Peanut on what might have been your birthday: You would have loved today. The sun is shining and there's not a cloud in the sky.  It's warm and beautiful out and it would have been the perfect day to meet you face to face.  I will always love you and miss you.

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thinking of you and sending you tons of (((((HUGS))).

Allison said...

((((Hugs))))) My thoughts are with you on this day.

The B said...

Sending you hugs and strength.
It is a beautiful day to remember a beautiful what if.

Emily said...

(((hugs))) We love you!!!

Do I Have to Be a D.I.N.K.? said...

Sending you lots of HUGS today! I know this is a very hard day for you!

Alex said...

Thinking of you, your hubs and your little Peanut. And sending you a hug... It's so hard to lose the little ones that were wanted so much.

Niibiishen said...

My thoughts are with you, I can't imagine.

Erin said...

*hugs*

Misty Dawn said...

(((HUGS))) Kitty

elephantscanremember said...

(hugs)

Heather said...

Hugs. Lots of hugs. I'm glad you're doing ok. Hugs, just lots of them. :o)

Angie said...

Thinking about you, darling. Sending hugs and comforting thoughts your way.

Marianne said...

HUGS!

Kate said...

Just hugs - thinking of you as you've passed what would have been....

^J^ said...

I am so sorry you're having to go through this Kitty! Glad you took the day off...hope you were able to do something speacial!

{{{Huge HUGS}}}

~stinkb0mb~ said...

big hugs my friend, i know all too well how hard these days can be.

sending you love from afar

~x~

Tracy said...

I'm so sorry, my dear friend